The dilemma revisited

So basically my plan is to make a list before looking at ceremony/reception places. This will definitely require Joe's participation, which will prove difficult because he is a very busy guy. I feel like once the guests are figured out and a venue is chosen, everything else will be fun and less stressful. I'll get to start envisioning what the wedding will look like and get an idea of what will work and what won't. I'm kinda psyched :)